Whenever I talk to a woman and have known her for a little time I come out with an extremely odd question that I think provides more insight about HER than what it seems on the surface.
The question I ask is:
"On a man, what section to you is the most attractive?"
Then I'll list the sections as follows:
After they've thought about it and provided (what seems) an honest opinion I'll continue with what they think would be their next favourite area, and then next, and then next (etc)... all the way to the bottom (no pun intended!).
Now while my study has only seen me ask this question on about a dozen or so single women its been interesting to note that MY preconceived ideas on what a woman would have in the top 3 wouldn't necessarily the case.
(I try and avoid women who are already married, or partnered, as to try to obtain an honest answer, as I think their answers will be tainted depending upon their man! And no this isn't some sick pick up line I use... I'm not *that* low!)
Anyway, I initially thought that most women would have either face, abs or ass in their top three, but interestingly only one out of those three would make it into the top three!
Some women have said shoulders as their number one, others arms, and others chest... and MOST have had legs at the bottom of the list!
So what does it all mean?
I dunno, but I'm going to go on a strange tangent here, so hold onto your hats...
I think a woman's taste on what body parts (sorry, I couldn't think of a more eloquent way to put it) she likes about a man represents something that is more than just the physical aspect of what the man bestows.
Take this as an example... let's say that a woman likes arms. Well, arms convey strength and protection. If a man were to open his arms he exposes his heart... hence why a hug is so intimate as it shows the man trusts the person their willing to expose their heart to. A woman that likes arms likes the protective type of man.
How about the chest? Well, a strong chest conveys leadership qualities. Apes and gorillas expose and beat their chests to show strength. A woman that likes this quality perhaps prefers men who take the lead and shows some initiative.
What about shoulders? Shoulders are often used to support and carry heavy items. This could mean that a woman prefers men who provide a supportive role and/or stability.
Legs? I think legs convey commitment... someone that is willing to *stand* by you or someone that is willing to *walk* through hell and back with you. Again this would be a form of support, perhaps emotional as well as physical.
Abs? This is the supportive core of the body, I would therefore define this as showing the true nature of a man and possibly also support. A woman needs someone who's genuine, and/or someone who can nurture them.
Ass? Face? I don't know about these ones... I'm still working on it. Interestingly no woman that I've spoken to yet has had these two as number one.
So where are we going with all this Dr. Phil??
I've never analysed things like this before as I've always left it to the "experts", but from something that started some time ago as a harmless question has no got me on this strange quest to see whether my "theory" is true.
I guess though we'll never really know... especially considering that its women we're dealing with here!
In fact, I'll finish with this interesting question a friend asked when I told him about my weird discovery (if I can even call it that?), he asked...
"Did you ever think that the single women you asked answered the way they did because they were flirting with you?"
Hmm... no wonder face, ass and abs weren't on the top!
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